Abandoned Forum

[nowhere man]

I have a sister, she is older then me, she is in college, I hate her. The main reason I hate her so is because she is a phony. I have usually been able to tolerate her phonyness, but it recently just pushed me over the edge.
Some backstory is nessacary. This last summer I baby sat my younger cousin, she was quite abnoxious, and rude, and she liked to try my patients as mutch as she could. But for some reason I still realy liked her. She is actually a realy distant cousin of ours, and my sister hardly knew her at all. As a matter of fact she once asked me (not long before I started babysitting) who she was. The whole time I was babysitting my sister saw my cousin probably 4 times. Now that summers over i don't babysit her anymore, but I see her at church every sunday. And today, lookinh through this cousins myspace page, I see that my sister left her a comment, and at the end she said "I love you" to this cousin that she didn't even know exist untill I told her. It realy angered me, she dosn't love her, my sister is such a phony.
And she's going to be a school teacher, she is going to be terriable at it, she always talks down to EVERYONE. I hate my sister so mutch, and I'm not just saying that becaue thats what siblings do.

Sorry I just had to vent about that

[nil]

I hope you and your sister will come to some kind of understanding. I'm sure she didn't mean to be phony.

P.S. As you can see, the statement I made above is phony too. Since I don't know your sister at all, how can I know she is or isn't phony? But my point is: people make these kind of statments all the time, e.g. "hope you are getting better", "wish you luck", "merry Xmas", just to name a few. People might or might not meant it. Sometimes we are much better off when we don't know what they really want to say...

[Astarte]

When you get older you'll only probably see her at Thanksgiving, Xmas, weddings and funerals - there now, that should cheer you up!